Oh kiddos, are you kidding me?! If you’re a parent of multiple children, then you know how different their personalities can be. It’s mind blowing! Read on to discover what your kid’s personality says about them (and you!)…
The Independent Extrovert:
This kid came out of the womb bursting with confidence and probably started talking to strangers immediately. New friendships come easily to the Independent Extrovert child. They generally succeed at anything they put their mind to!
If you’re raising an Independent Extrovert, you’re most likely an impactful and encouraging parent. However, you may also question whether the amount of confidence in your child is a good thing, but guess what Momma… the Independent Extrovert child could be a world changer! Continue to praise them for their confidence and the areas they are succeeding in, while reminding them how important it is to stay humble and kind. They have potential to be a Go-Getter adult!
The Softhearted Introvert:
Sweet snuggles were the first thing this child wanted when they came into the world. The Softhearted Introvert is gentle and kind. This child is often quiet, determined and trustworthy. They may not express it verbally, but they are often very smart and inventive as their brain is always forward thinking. When this kid does cut loose and let their silly side show, they have the best belly laugh!
If you’re the parent of a Softhearted Introverted kiddo, you are trustworthy and a safe place. You are loving and kind. Although you may worry that your child is “too quiet,” rest assured, your child is always thinking, always evaluating. Encourage your Softhearted Introvert child to meet new people in areas they feel passionate about… Boy Scouts, music lessons, sports, etc. Your child’s attributes of being gentle, kind and smart will take them far in life.
The Personable Introvert who you mistake as an Extrovert:
Early in life, this child may be quiet and withdrawn, wanting to stick close to their parents and what feels comfortable and safe. Within a few years however, this “layered personality” kiddo develops into what you believe is an Extrovert. They spread their wings, enjoy meeting new people and begin trying new things. However, this child is actually a Personable Introvert. They have learned at an early age, that their best life lives outside their comfort zone and they will push through the things that are hard to get there.
If you’re raising a Personable Introvert who you mistake as an Extrovert, you embrace the phrase “There are two things we can give our children: one is roots, the other is wings.” You teach your child about where they came from, yet you inspire them to soar. This child really wants to do their very best in life, they want to make a difference and leave a lasting impact on the world. If you recognize their need for some quiet time and space, yet introduce them to new concepts and cultures and people and encourage them to use their gifts, this child will someday move mountains.
The Imaginative Comedian:
The Imaginative Comedian child had you laughing they day they were born. They make up incredible stories and when they tell you about them, you believe every word! This child speaks with authority and conviction, yet is warm and inviting. This child is optimistic and future minded. The Imaginative Comedian is born with a magnetic attraction that people want to be around.
If you’re the parent of an Imaginative Comedian kid, you are fun! You are a visionary who sees the future and it looks bright! You may play with your child in a rough-and-tumble, yet loving way. Although your Imaginative Comedian child is oh-so-funny, they need to be reminded that their worth is not in their ability to crack jokes, but rather their ability to genuinely connect with people, to make them smile and feel good about being around them. The Imaginative Comedian child needs to feel loved and valued for reasons other than their humorous side. If this child knows 100% that they are loved and valued, and have many wonderful traits other than being funny, they will grow up to be magnetically attractive with major positive influence.
So many things play into the way that our kids personalities develop… birth order, gender, the beliefs that they are raised with, even the way that parents interact with and play with them.
The greatest thing we can do as parents is to help our child recognize their best qualities and stretch them to grow into the best version of themself! When we recognize their strong suit, we can encourage them to use that gift often. We can praise them for the things they are doing well and cheer them on to do even more.
Ultimately, you have great kids on your hands. You are raising up little humans who could make an impact on, or even change the world. Parenting is fun and stressful, it’s exciting and heartbreaking. Ultimately what it is though… is important. YOU are your child’s greatest hero. YOU are the most important person in their life. What a gift and privilege! How will you use that gift? And what will your child become because of it?
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